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Strong Mind with a Gentle Heart

Strong Mind with a Gentle Heart Change comes with time. I've been a "bad guy" for most of my life. All things happen for a reason, and it was time for my Change. I realized, in the last year, that writing is therapeutic for me. Also, that I had some meaningful things to say. I've written about a true life experience that I had, that I'm looking to have published or sell outright. I've also written several articles/blogs on my personal page on myspace/godsfave715. Feel free to check them out and subscribe. I'm not looking to change the world, just inspire a positive thought in those willing to listen. I would like the chance to be able to inspire someone to be part of something great. I've come to realize that HONESTY, is ALWAYS the best route to take when trying to establish and maintain a healthy relationship with others.
Whom I'd like to meet...
PLATONIC: Cool folks who'd like to share their thoughts and ideas.
ROMANTIC: A woman that I can see myself being with, for the rest of my life, as my partner in all things. I have many positive things that I want to do. I'm looking for a smart attractive, open-minded, honest, sincere, conscious and willing to try, unpretentious and independent individual. She should be healthy, both mentally/physically, and willing/able to start a family.

About Me

Gender Male

Orientation Straight

Height 5'10"

Weight 170 lbs

Hobbies & Interests writing, reading

Body Type athletic, slim, fit

Movies sci-fi, action

Orientation straight

Eye Color brown

Hair Color bald

Ethnicity African American

Relationship single - never married

Have Kids no - definitely want them though, no - maybe with the right person

Education Level high school grad

Profession Other

Income level that's private

Do you smoke? no - open to dating smokers though

Do you drink? no

I currently live with roommate(s)

Socially, I am shy at first, but warm up quickly

Political Views not interested in politics

Food Related Junk Food Junkie

Personality intellectual

Religious Views Not Religious, but Spiritual

I'm looking for the yin to my yang, soulmate, romance, relationship, miss right, conversation

My Sign sagittarius : nov. 22-dec. 21

Gender Male

Music R and B, Motown, Hip Hop

Fitness & Sports weightlifting, running

Looking for

Their Body Type a few extra pounds, fit, pleasantly plump, skinny, slender, slim, supermodel, thick, voluptuous, average, athletic

Movies action, comedy, drama, romance, romantic comedy, sci-fi

Orientation straight

Eye Color black, blue, brown, gray, green, hazel

Their Ethnicity African American, Asian, Caucasian, Hispanic / Latino, Indian, Middle Eastern, Mixed Race, Native American, Inter-racial, Other, Pacific Islander

Relationship widowed, single - never married, single, divorced

Have Kids no - definitely want them though, no - maybe with the right person, yes - single parent home, yes - grown and out of the house

Their Education Level some college, post-Graduate, high school grad, currently in college, college grad

Do they smoke? no - open to dating smokers though, no - will not date a smoker

Do they drink? socially, no

They currently live with roommate(s), with pets, with kids, alone, family and friends visit often

Socially, they are shy at first, but warm up quickly

Political Views independent, democrat, not interested in politics

Food Related Junk Food Junkie, Soul Food

Personality romantic, lover, liberal, intellectual, fun loving, activist

Religious Views Christian, Not Religious, but Spiritual

They are looking for soulmate, romance, relationship, penpal, mr. right, dating, conversation, the yin to my yang